Steve Kultala's Powerful Presenter Blog

Do This!

steve — Wed, 25 Nov 2009 18:13:06 +0000

I’m thankful for …
1) A 2-year-old grandson who runs full-tilt into my arms wearing his best ear-to-ear grin
2) forgiveness unexpected, undeserved
3) anything that makes me humble
4) Mondays
5) loyal customers who enroll their people after 4-5 years because “what I learned from you is still making a difference.”
6) discovery
7) a pulse
forwarded emails because I can delete them without having to read them
9) surprises
10) two daughters and a son who amaze and delight
11) detachment (I know, sounds too new age. Deal with it.)
12) gender differences
13) conversation
14) anyone who is eager
15) haircuts that require a barber or stylist
16) exercise completed
17) my wife who has no concept of her power and influence (or maybe she does and enjoys playing with my mind)
18) spirituality (currently undefined)
19) transformations/epiphanies and mocha lattes (one often leads to the other)
20) Sweat however generated
21) anything that takes my breath away
22) now moments
23) the ability to occasionally make you smile
and, finally
24) a willingness to take chances, make mistakes, and take another run at it.

Stop Talking!

steve — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 18:19:49 +0000

The next time you enter into a conversation, do yourself a favor: don’t talk. Additionally, make no judgment or formulate an opinion about what you’re hearing. Just listen…authentically. It’s okay to acknowledge what you hear, but that’s all the verbalizing you’re allowed to do. One additional request: look like you’re listening.

I can’t wait to hear what happens!

What’s Your Job Title?

steve — Mon, 28 Sep 2009 17:40:59 +0000

Because I provide presentation skills training to business professionals, you may feel it’s none of my business asking you about what business you’re in. Bear with me, I have a very important point to make.

Besides, I already know the answer!

Regardless of your title and regardless of your company’s products and services, you’re in the sales business! You may not be on commission. You may be responsible for a specific function like purchasing, r&d, quality, public relations, or plant security. but you’re first and foremost a sales person.

The implications surrounding your success and the company’s are profound!

You Can Spell It But Can You Give It?

steve — Wed, 16 Sep 2009 16:15:08 +0000

How do you show or demonstrate respect? I started listing ways in my mind and I immediately realized there are an infinite number of opportunities. Some days we recognize, notice and act on them. Some days we unconsciously choose to wait for others to give us a little.

I’m going to go out on a limb and claim we don’t do enough of the former and tend to do too much of the latter. It’s than darn fragile, never satisfied, always hungry ego again. We’re singing it out with you, Aretha!

Giving respect is a powerful way to build relationships with our spouses, sons and daughters, customers, supervisors, and anyone who serves us. Every Friday I try to make it easier for the garbage collector to grab and go. I’ve gotten better at being more conscious and conscientious at doorways. (It’s not all about me and my schedule!) Listening has taken a higher priority than talking - in most situations.

I advise business presenters to “listen with their eyes,” to pause after an audience member asks a question, to at all times demonstrate to the listeners that they are always more important than you and your “stuff.”

If you get better at giving respect and no one has to spell it out for you, I’m guessing your relationships with improve, your audiences will respond more positively, and you’ll receive more respect than you’ll know what to do with!

It Worked!

steve — Wed, 09 Sep 2009 19:24:37 +0000

When I coach people to become better presenters, the first obstacle to achieving success is usually fear. Helping them get past the fear is a challenge. But I always succeed - always.

So let’s say a client confesses to fearing more than speaking. What if he or she states they fear the future? or life in general? Would my techniques for handling the fear of speaking be transferable to handling these broader fears? I have no training in pyschology. I am not certified to be a psychotherapist.

But I shouldn’t let that stop me.

Let’s take just one of my recommendations for dealing with the fear of speaking: Breathe. I instruct my participants to breathe more consciously, correctly, and more often. Whenever they do, they become more grounded, more relaxed, more in control. Hmmm. Sounds perfect in “real life.” Feeling a little stressed? Breathe. You may feel more in control, not as hung up on the results of the past or prospects for the future.

It worked! Stay tuned. There may be more to this than meets the eye!